Card Getting Declined?
It happens. Banks are overly cautious with dating charges. Here's exactly how to fix it.
Norway & Denmark — Updated Feb 2026
Near-Total Decline Rate on Traditional BanksStarting around February 6, 2026, we are seeing nearly all payments declined from traditional banks in Norway and Denmark — including DNB, Nordea, Danske Bank, Handelsbanken, and others. While a rare transaction may slip through, the overwhelming majority are being blocked.
Why this is happening: Under EU/EEA regulations (PSD2), Norwegian and Danish banks enforce Strong Customer Authentication (SCA) on all online card purchases. This requires verification through BankID (Norway) or MitID (Denmark) via 3D Secure. When a merchant is registered outside the EU/EEA, traditional banks cannot complete this authentication handshake — so they hard-decline the transaction automatically. Recent enforcement tightening by Nordic issuers has made this a blanket block rather than a case-by-case check.
The fix: You need to use a fintech app instead. Apps like Revolut and Wise use different authentication flows that are not affected by this restriction. Traditional bank cards — debit or credit — are extremely unlikely to work regardless of your balance or bank settings.
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Get a Fintech Card
Download Revolut, Wise, or Cash App. These approve dating charges way more often than traditional banks.
Create a Virtual Card
Generate a fresh virtual card in the app. This bypasses any blocks on your existing card number.
Enable Online Payments
Turn on "online payments" and "international" toggles in your card settings before trying.
Start Small
Try a small purchase first. Once it goes through, larger amounts usually work fine.
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Category Blocks
Many banks auto-block "dating" and "adult" merchant categories regardless of your balance.
Location Mismatch
When your IP address doesn't match your card's country, fraud systems get suspicious.
3D Secure Failures
Delayed or missing verification prompts cause silent failures. Fintech apps handle this better.
Maximize Your Success Rate
Disable VPN During Checkout
Set your location to match your card's country when making a purchase.
Expect the First Decline
It's normal. Fintech apps let you unlock and retry instantly — legacy banks don't.
Verify Your Identity First
Complete ID verification in your fintech app before attempting payment.
Try a Different Card
If one keeps failing, generate a new virtual card number and try again.
Still Getting Declined?
Message our support team with a screenshot of the decline. We'll help you figure out the best next step for your specific situation.