Dating for Military & Veterans
Whether you're active duty, reserves, or a veteran — we understand your lifestyle. Connect with women worldwide who appreciate your service and understand your schedule.
Why Service Members Choose Findmate
Global Access
Connect with women in 200+ countries. Perfect whether you're stateside, deployed, or stationed overseas.
Any Schedule
Women online 24/7 across all timezones. Chat when you have downtime, no matter the hour.
Complete Privacy
Discreet platform. Your profile is only visible to members. We respect your need for privacy.
Serious Women
Our women are looking for real relationships, not pen pals. They're ready for commitment.
Your Privacy is Protected
We understand discretion matters. Your profile is only visible to logged-in members. We don't share data, we don't blast notifications, and we never contact you at work. Your personal life stays personal.
Secure Access Welcome
VPNs? Totally fine. Use whatever privacy tools you need — we built the platform to work with them, not against them.
Quick tip: Turn off location services when you need to stay off the radar.
Wherever You Are
Deployed
Stay connected while overseas. Chat with women during downtime, build real connections, and have something to look forward to.
Stationed Overseas
Meet local women near your base. Many of our members have met partners in countries like Korea, Japan, Germany, and more.
Stateside
Plan for the future. Connect with women internationally while you're home, then visit when you have leave.
Veteran
Your service shaped who you are. Find women who appreciate discipline, loyalty, and the values you developed.
Odd Hours
Our members are online 24/7 across every timezone. Someone's always awake when you have time to chat.
Ready to Settle
Looking for someone to build a life with after service? Our women are relationship-minded, not just looking for attention.
Women Who Appreciate Service
Yoj, 25
Philippines
Keys, 22
Philippines
Aly, 25
Philippines
Chriscia, 23
Philippines
Anne, 23
Philippines
Sheniee, 22
Philippines
Nikkie, 20
Philippines
Jennifer, 23
Philippines
I was stationed in Korea and tried the local dating apps with no luck. A buddy told me about Findmate. Within a month, I met my now-fiancée from the Philippines. We did long-distance for a year while I finished my tour, and now we're planning our wedding. Best decision I ever made.
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You Served. Now Find Happiness.
Connect with women who appreciate the values that military life instilled in you.